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LOVE MATTERS
RELATIONSHIPS MATTERS
ISSUES RELATED RELATIONSHIP

Love is like glue that keeps a relationship bond strong and solid. Relationship is of course, bond of love surrounded with friendship, sexual attraction and compatibility. But in today’s time what actually is love for everyone especially for the young generation who fall in love with other person passionately. Is it the love then why there are so many issues in a relationship which lead to heart breaks then mental breakdown?  Nowadays, saying “I love you “to someone has become a easiest way of expressing and the very next day saying “I don’t love you” “forget me” “it’s just a casual gesture” has also become a easiest way of expressing . Now love has just become a casual gesture or deep emotions feelings in this beautiful social media world expressing everyday their love.
In today’s generation some may say love is a problem and for some it’s like a never ending feeling which can’t be controlled. Yes, it is difficult to define love because everyone’s perception of real love can be dramatically different. As love is one of the most profound emotions known to human beings, providing a deep source of fulfillment. Fail or good healthy relationship, every relationship experiences issues and pressures at one point or another from arguments to problems to trust issue to fail expectation.
The most commons issue people have in relationship are:

Understanding: In relationship, partners expect that the person they loved the most in this world atleast understand him/her. Because understanding is the most important part in an relationship if the partners doesn’t understand each other at their time of need with whom they have faith the most then who will. Lack of understanding lead to misunderstanding which lead to stress, anxiety, tension and unhappiness. In today’s generation understanding someone has become a issue mainly with partners because of trust issue.

Trust:  People say trust is the base of love; if we don’t keep our base strong then automatically it will fall apart. Relationship is love and love is trust for each other, once trust is broken its often really hard to get back, if at point there is no trust in a relation that relation is baseless. It create disturbances and over thinking thoughts like in today’s modern world when the partner take time to even reply their message after a few minutes, it leads to dramatic scenario and leads to question you don’t trust me or believe me. It might be a baseless reason but this only gives heart breaks. 

Not talking about Problems: Repressing yourself in a relationship to avoid fights and arguments you are running into worse problems in the future. Some might say its adjustment but no its just an illusionary thoughts, as not being honest and not speaking about your issues in a relationship creates more problems among each other. It’s better to clear things out rather than suppress your thoughts and problems.

Excessive complaining:  Yes, excessive complaining is also a relationship issue. Its okay that when you are in relationship there comes the expectation but excessive expectation leads to dissatisfaction too. Such people are never satisfied or please with it. We can say we cannot have everything we wish for in life. 

Pretending to agree : Again some might called it an adjustment that sometimes pretending to agree is fine but they don’t realize that after a period of time, partner continue forming expectations without your knowledge, he/she will just think they are doing right because their partners will agree with them. It might create a lot of misunderstanding in the future i.e. it’s always better to be honest about your opinions regarding your partners no matter how hurtful might be.

Possessive:  Being possessive for your partner is sometimes is not healthy like always stopping them for doing such which he/she might liked to do but they have to suppress it because they don’t want to hurt you. But It doesn’t work always, every relation must have that space and freedom so that the partners can have a healthy relationship.  Some might say it is their love for each other by being possessive but people don’t realize that it can lead to dangerous situation like abusive relationships. 

There are uncountable issues regarding relationships and it has different meaning and perception for everyone. Relationships are like plants; we have to take care very minutely so that it grow in healthier and prettier way and look beautiful to everyone. Everyone has their own issues and reason in relationship but to keep it in healthy way both partners have to take care avoiding all ego and fear and just be free to each other. Because love is beautiful and through love creates a beautiful relationship among two beautiful people which has a deeper emotions. Love and always be happy.
                                                       -Divya😉😉

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